Use this love spell jar recipe to guide you, but remember to trust your intuition and adapt it as needed!
Hello Sweet Witchy Reader,
I am thrilled to introduce myself as the newest addition to Grandma’s Grimoire! My name is Auntie Shannah—practicing Witch, Artist, Teacher, and Clairvoyant. I’m delighted to share my magic and musings with this wonderful community of kindred spirits. At the end of this post, I’ll tell you a little more about myself, but first, let’s dive into the magic of the upcoming holiday of love: Valentine’s Day.
The Pagan Roots of Valentine’s Day
Before it became a commercial holiday with candy hearts and roses, Valentine’s Day had deep roots in pagan traditions. Some scholars connect it to the Roman festival of Lupercalia, a mid-February fertility celebration dedicated to Faunus, the god of agriculture, and to Romulus and Remus, the founders of Rome.
During this festival, rituals were performed to cleanse the land and promote health and fertility. Over time, these practices evolved, blending with early Christian traditions to honor Saint Valentine.
While the modern-day holiday may look different, its energetic focus on love and connection remains potent for witches and magic workers.
Lunar Insights for Valentine’s Day 2025
On February 14th, 2025, the moon will be in a waxing gibbous phase under the sign of Virgo. This lunar phase is all about growth and amplification, making it a perfect time to focus on manifesting love and connection in your life. Virgo’s influence adds a layer of grounded, practical energy to the mix, reminding us to nurture love in organized and intentional ways.
Harnessing the energy of “as above, so below,” this is a wonderful opportunity to amplify your feelings of love—both for yourself and for others. After all, the magic you radiate starts from within.
Practices for Self-Love
Let’s begin by cultivating self-love, the foundation of all love. Here are a few ideas:
- Treat yourself to a solo date at a cozy tea house or a scenic morning walk in nature.
- Dress in your favorite outfit, choosing colors like soft mauves, deep reds, or violets to reflect loving vibrations.
- Listen to music that uplifts and empowers you—songs that make you want to dance!
Once you’ve spent a few days nourishing your own heart, it’s time to work some magic: let’s create some Love Spell Jars!

Love Spell Jar Recipe
Spell jars have been used in witchcraft for centuries as a way to manifest intentions and store energy. By combining herbs, crystals, and personal elements in a sealed container, a spell jar acts as a focused charm that continues working over time. A spell jar is a beautiful way to give physical form to your intentions. Here’s a love spell jar recipe to guide you, but remember to trust your intuition and adapt it as needed.
To create your love spell jar, you’ll need:
- A glass jar with a tight-fitting lid (vintage jars or those from craft stores work wonderfully).
- Rose quartz for love vibrations.
- Tourmaline for grounding and protection.
- Hawthorn berries for happiness and heart protection.
- Dried rose petals for their unmatched love vibration.
- Mullein for love and divination.
- Cinnamon for heat and passion.
- A small piece of paper to write your intention.
Instructions:
- Cleanse your jar: Fill it with salt and let it sit for a few days, or smoke cleanse it with ethically sourced sage or palo santo. Do this outdoors if possible, returning the cleared energy to the universe.
- Set your intention: Write your desire on a piece of paper—whether it’s attracting a new partner or deepening an existing connection.
- Fill your jar: Layer the ingredients one by one, holding your intention in your mind and speaking it aloud as you go. Visualize your desires manifesting with each addition.
- Seal the magic: Once filled, seal your love spell jar and place it on your altar or a prominent spot where you’ll see it often. Alternatively, you can bury it while chanting your intention.
A powerful time to create your love spell jar would be on the New Moon (January 29th, 2025) to let it grow alongside the waxing moon, reaching its height on Valentine’s Day.
High-Quality Herbs for Love Spell Jars (and More!)
Each herb chosen for a love spell jar carries specific energetic properties that enhance love and attraction. Rose petals symbolize romance and emotional healing, hawthorn berries protect the heart and invite happiness, and cinnamon adds warmth and passion. Mullein is often used for divination and strengthening love-related intentions, while rose quartz amplifies loving vibrations. These carefully selected ingredients work together to create a powerful love-drawing charm.

If you’re seeking high-quality herbs for your love spell jars and other witchy needs, I recommend supporting local farms or these trusted sources:
- Healing Spirits Herb Farm (Avoca, NY – in person and online)
- Mountain Rose Herbs (online)
Your Unique Witchy Path
As you work with this spell, remember: your intuition is your greatest guide. While I’ve shared traditional methods, I encourage you to infuse your own energy and creativity into your magic. Every Witch’s path is unique, and your power shines brightest when you honor your individuality.
I’ve been walking the Witch’s path for many years, weaving magic into my life as an artist, teacher, and clairvoyant. Through this blog, I hope to inspire, guide, and grow alongside this incredible community. Let’s create magic together!
Until next time, dear readers, may your heart be full, your intentions clear, and your magic ever-growing.
With love and enchantments,
Auntie Shannah

Shannah Warwick, aka “Auntie Shannah,” has been walking the Witch’s path for many years, weaving magic into her life as an artist, teacher, and clairvoyant. She is the designer, craftswoman, and artist behind BlckBts. Dedicated to those who tread the witchier path, her creations celebrate enchantment, individuality, and connection to the unseen, all while complementing her favorite black boots.
Shannah recently launched Energy.Weaver, a witchy podcast that explores themes of personal growth, energy work, and the transformative power of creativity.